(haha sorry this took so long— dinner dinged and there was eating to be done)
I: What’s the most important part of a relationship?
Ah this one is difficult to answer. I want to say ‘contact’, in both the physical and emotional sense, but as a sufferer of chiratophobia the physical side tends to be rather hard for me (thankfully it’s mild and I can usually deal with people touching me if they give me some form of warning). …Actually, yeah. Contact and touch and stuff. Because of my chiratophobia, being able to touch someone and be touched by someone on accident/by surprise without freaking out definitely rates as pretty high up there.
and I’m sure we’ve all seen how easily I fall in love with people who message and text me and make me a part of their lives even if I never see them face to face, so there’s the emotional contact right there.
S: What do you consider a deal breaker?
Douche baggery? I’m not really sure. I’ve never really thought about it. Clinginess when I’m not as interested as s/he is tends to be pretty off putting.
So is being pestered and pushed into be someone’s domme when I’m not comfortable enough with the relationship we already had, actually. Man I really need to get over that. It’s been like three/four years now.
1: Would you break up with someone your parents didn’t approve of?
That depends on what it is that they don’t approve of. If there is a good reason— like, say, s/he is abusive to my friends or my family behind my back— then I would. But for the most part, no. My life, my choices. If I want to date… uh you know what. I’m not sure if there’s any generalization that my father would object to. Mom on the other hand. Well, she’s going to have to learn to deal with my dating girls at some point.