{"id":14704,"date":"2012-02-07T01:49:19","date_gmt":"2012-02-07T01:49:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/renne.finalknight.net\/?p=14704"},"modified":"2012-02-07T01:49:19","modified_gmt":"2012-02-07T01:49:19","slug":"i-s-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/renne.finalknight.net\/?p=14704","title":{"rendered":"i, s, 1."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>(haha sorry this took so long&#8212; dinner dinged and there was eating to be done)<\/p>\n<p><strong>I:<\/strong><strong><span>\u00a0What&#8217;s the most important part of a relationship?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span>Ah this one is difficult to answer. I want to say &#8216;contact&#8217;, in both the physical and emotional sense, but as a sufferer of chiratophobia the physical side tends to be rather hard for me (thankfully it&#8217;s mild and I can usually deal with people touching me if they give me some form of warning). &#8230;Actually, yeah. Contact and touch and stuff. <\/span><span><em>Because <\/em>of my chiratophobia, being able to touch someone and be touched by someone on accident\/by surprise without freaking out definitely rates as pretty high up there.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>and I&#8217;m sure we&#8217;ve all seen how easily I fall in love with people who message and text me and make me a part of their lives even if I never see them face to face, so there&#8217;s the emotional contact right there.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>S:<\/strong><strong><span>\u00a0What do you consider a deal breaker?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span>Douche baggery? I&#8217;m not really sure. I&#8217;ve never really thought about it. Clinginess when I&#8217;m not as interested as s\/he is tends to be pretty off putting.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>So is being pestered and pushed into be someone&#8217;s domme when I&#8217;m not comfortable enough with the relationship we already had, actually. Man I really need to get over that. It&#8217;s been like three\/four years now.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>1:<\/strong><strong><span>\u00a0Would you break up with someone your parents didn&#8217;t approve of?<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span>That depends on what it is that they don&#8217;t approve of. If there is a good reason&#8212; like, say, s\/he is abusive to my friends or my family behind my back&#8212; then I would. But for the most part, no. My life, my choices. If I want to date&#8230; uh you know what. I&#8217;m not sure if there&#8217;s any generalization that my father would object to. Mom on the other hand. Well, she&#8217;s going to have to learn to deal with my dating girls at some point.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(haha sorry this took so long&#8212; dinner dinged and there was eating to be done) I:\u00a0What&#8217;s the most important part of a relationship? Ah this one is difficult to answer. I want to say &#8216;contact&#8217;, in both the physical and emotional sense, but as a sufferer of chiratophobia the physical side tends to be rather &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/renne.finalknight.net\/?p=14704\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">i, s, 1.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14704","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/renne.finalknight.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14704","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/renne.finalknight.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/renne.finalknight.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/renne.finalknight.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/renne.finalknight.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=14704"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/renne.finalknight.net\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14704\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/renne.finalknight.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=14704"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/renne.finalknight.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=14704"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/renne.finalknight.net\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=14704"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}